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When you are telling your swinging partner about a recent erotic encounter you will want to make sure that it is an enjoyable experience. Whether you are telling them to set the mood or just telling them for the sake of telling them there are a few things to keep in mind to ensure that the encounter is retold well and in a way that will be effective.

Being Graphic

Think about your audience. If the people that you are telling the story to would enjoy some extra details then don’t be afraid to give tell them. You will find that some people enjoy hearing all of the dirty details whenever they are hearing about an erotic encounter that you have had recently. The more details you give and the more graphic you are, the more it will feel like they were there and the more it will turn them on. It is important to try not to add details that didn’t happen as this can end up making the story unbelievable and difficult to follow.

Setting the Mood

If you are doing this to set the mood, then you need to be sure that you do it correctly. Talk about what happened in a way that lets them know that you want it to happen to them. A person that hears about something sexy that happened will often want to try these things out on their own. Talk slowly and speak in a sexy voice as you tell recount every detail that happened.

Many swinging women that have just recently had a baby will wonder if lactating will turn other swinging men on. A lot of men will get turned on by lactating women for several different reasons. A man will often get turned on by women that are nursing because their breasts will be larger and more swollen than they normally are. It is this initial attraction that will often lead to continued attraction once they see that the woman is actually lactating.

Nurturing Argument

It is argued that men are attracted to breasts because it signals comfort and nurturing from back when they were babies. A woman that is lactating will often be a step further into this theory. A man that is turned on by the site of a woman’s breasts because of the nurturing feeling they used to get will often get even more turned on when he sees that they are producing milk.

It is common that the first thing that a man will do when he sees a breast is put his mouth on it. Whenever a woman is lactating it will give him more reason to do this.

Additional Theories

Whenever people are having sex it is looked at as sex that is better when there is more of a mess and more going on. The more things to play with and the bigger the cleanup is the better of a time that is had. Whenever a woman is lactating this will usually only add to the fun that is already being had between groups of swingers.